Chapter 117

Tool #1: The Comprehensive Friendship Audit

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Part A: Relationship Inventory

List every person you'd consider more than a casual acquaintance:

| Name | How We Met | Years Known | Last Meaningful Contact | Primary Context | Energy After Interaction (+/-/0) | |------|------------|-------------|------------------------|-----------------|-----------------------------------| | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | | |

Part B: Zone Classification

Transfer each name to their appropriate zone:

Zone 5 - Inner Circle (1-3 people) - ________________________________ - ________________________________ - ________________________________

Zone 4 - Close Friends (3-7 people) - ________________________________ - ________________________________ - ________________________________ - ________________________________ - ________________________________ - ________________________________ - ________________________________

Zone 3 - Activity Partners (10-20 people) [List names below]

Zone 2 - Friendly Acquaintances (50-150 people) [Note: Don't list all, just note approximate number: _____ ]

Zone 1 - Recognized Faces [Note approximate number: _____ ]

Part C: Domain Distribution

Categorize Zone 3-5 relationships by domain:

Professional: ________________________________ Geographic: ________________________________ Interest-Based: ________________________________ Values-Based: ________________________________ Historical: ________________________________ Family: ________________________________

Part D: Gap Analysis

1. Which zones feel under-populated? 2. Which domains lack representation? 3. What types of friendships are missing? 4. Which relationships have growth potential? 5. Where are you over-invested?

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