Chapter 115

The Relationship Architecture

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Building Your Board of Advisors

Treat your career like a company—build a board:

The Mentor (1-2 people) - 10+ years ahead in your path - Invested in your success - Regular guidance sessions - Opens doors strategically

The Sponsor (1-2 people) - Senior leader who advocates for you - Mentions you in rooms you're not in - Recommends you for opportunities - Stakes reputation on your success

The Peer Mastermind (3-5 people) - Similar level, different companies - Regular problem-solving sessions - Salary and strategy transparency - Mutual opportunity sharing

The Industry Insider (2-3 people) - Deep knowledge of sector trends - Aware of upcoming opportunities - Connected to decision makers - Provides market intelligence

The Skill Complement (2-3 people) - Abilities that enhance yours - Potential collaboration partners - Cross-referral opportunities - Force multiplier relationships

James's Board After 18 Months: - Mentor: CFO who guided major career decisions - Sponsor: Board member who recommended him for roles - Mastermind: 4 finance leaders across industries - Insiders: 2 executive recruiters, 1 PE partner - Complements: Tech CTO, Marketing CMO

The Relationship Maintenance System

The Touch Point Calendar:

Inner Circle: Weekly/Biweekly - Regular collaboration - Immediate value exchange - Deep relationship building - Mutual support

Influence Ring: Monthly/Quarterly - Valuable updates shared - Coffee chats scheduled - Opportunities exchanged - Relationships deepened

Opportunity Network: Quarterly/Annually - LinkedIn engagement - Holiday greetings - Major update sharing - Occasional value adds

The 5-Touch System: 1. Congratulate: On promotions, achievements 2. Contribute: Share relevant resources 3. Connect: Make valuable introductions 4. Consult: Ask for their expertise 5. Celebrate: Acknowledge their impact