Friendship maintenance isn't about finding more time—it's about using time differently. Small, consistent investments compound into meaningful connections.
Key principles for sustainable maintenance: - Micro-connections maintain macro-relationships - Integration beats isolation - Rituals create automaticity - Honesty enables realistic expectations - Presence trumps perfection
Common patterns in successful maintenance: - Morning or evening routines work best - Group connections efficient for busy seasons - Seasonal adjustment prevents burnout - Technology enables but doesn't replace - Grace must flow both directions