Build depth systematically in existing friendships:
Immediate Actions (This Week)
1. Choose Three Depth Candidates: Identify relationships ready for deepening based on mutual investment and regular contact.
2. Practice One Level-Up Question: In your next interaction, ask one question from the next level up on your current depth.
3. Create One Depth Context: Schedule an interaction in a depth-enabling environment rather than usual coffee shop.
Short-Term Actions (Next 30 Days)
1. Complete Vulnerability Map: Assess your comfort zones and plan systematic expansion.
2. Initiate Reciprocity Conversation: Address any imbalances in one relationship directly but kindly.
3. Establish One Depth Ritual: Create recurring context for deeper conversation with one friend.
Long-Term Actions (Next 90 Days)
1. Progress Three Relationships: Move three surface friendships to meaningful connections using DEEPER.
2. Develop Depth Skills: Practice active listening, vulnerability, and emotional expression regularly.
3. Build Support Network: Ensure you have appropriate depth across your friendship portfolio.